What's my age again?

How old is the age when you grow up?

What I mean is .. is there an age that is set that is the day you must take out your nose ring and hand in your sex pistols shirt?

I am in a state of constant conflict. I am young ( 27 in a month) but everyone with kids my daughters age are ... Not young? I have a friend , a parent of a girl my daughter plays with. She just turned 40. She is fun and all but don't ask her to play any 'Rancid' or 'Social Distortion'

That's okay, I don't mind. I just want to know if (to be thought of as a responsible person and a good parent) if I have to give up the loud music and the funky hair colours? I did take out the eyebrow ring. But I miss it.
Can my daughter be proud of who she is if I show her that I have have to change to be 'part of the world'? I like being different, but it also means being off to the side, not getting included and that sucks.

Well as it stands I will wear my clash tshirts to pick her up and my hair will never stay the same colour. She likes green day and wants blue hair. I guess I've lost her in the eyes of the world anyway? So what's the problem eh?
' I want to be the minority' \m/ \m/